Why we became so judgemental?


Why it is so difficult at times to understand someone’s condition. We always make our decisions by our own without knowing how other person might going through.

I used to be like this only. When I wanted to talk to somebody and when he/she take me for granted, don’t do the things which I assumed them to do, don’t talk to me . I’d be thinking I’ll do the same when they will need me.

But in actuality, when we grow up little more, we automatically start thinking about our own people, from the perception. Because what I believe in love is that, love can not be demanded instead, it is that treasure, where the more you spend it on others, the more you’ll get.

So at the end, you need to change your mentality, and think from the perspective of others. We need to stop being judgemental. This is what true love means to me!

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Published by: SumitOfficial

Sumit (22) passionately follows his dreams by writing his heart out for more than 3 years now, and have been into many creative fields including- VJ, singer, who’s appeared on National TV, done radio shows, conducted Literature events, written articles for newspapers and magazines. Professionally he’s delivering his services to one of the leading companies in Mumbai being an Asst. Manager. You’ll find many emotions through his words which will dagger your heart and you’ll relate it with yourself. Writing about untouched emotions human feels, poetry, life journey, sex, erotica, and BDSM is what attracts him the most. Welcome to SumitOfficial’s Blog. 😊

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44 thoughts on “Why we became so judgemental?”

  1. Hello there. How are you doing?
    I stopped by to let you know that I have nominated for 3 day quote challenge. The link is https://theuglyducklingslife.wordpress.com/2015/06/28/3-day-quote-challenge-day-3sumitofficials-blogsumitofficials-blog/
    I’m not sure if you participate in such things or not. I hope you do. If you won’t than it’s fine as well.
    BTW It was a good post. People lack empathy and that’s mostly the reason one gets judgmental.
    =) Take care.


      1. You know last night I was wondering what does “The ugly Ducking….” means? I thought I should ask you. . And I found your 1st blog. . But didn’t get it. Can you please enlighten me ? If it’s personal then forget it,
        Else as a friend you can tell me 🙂


  2. So true!!!
    love can not be demanded instead, it is that treasure, where the more you spend it on others, the more you’ll get.Loved these lines! See SumitOfficial…Iss waqt bhi m reading ur blog….You’ve got a fan here.😉😊

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