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Life’s Playing Grown Up!

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Isn’t it a great feeling when one of your bestfriends call you up at 12:23 am just because she’s not feeling well and need someone to talk to her, to understand her, one who can console her, listen to her and also someone who scold and warn her to stop stalking her ex on Facebook through fake IDs. Made her deactivate that id and took promise from her to not open it ever. After all nobody gives a shit on what we think about them. It’s over. Just accept the fact. This is the funda of life. You have to move on no matter what, the sun will rise tomorrow and sets in the evening too. Will it stop its functioning for you? Not really! Same goes with the people whom we have left behind. They aren’t exist anymore, are they?

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Everyone has a reason to come into our lives, some people to be with us for the rest of our lives and few ones to teach us how to get away from them.

Really, life changes when we grow up a bit day by day. Where fighting for small things, not speaking to each other, backbiting,  kiddo fight doesn’t matter anymore. Where we stop thinking about people who doesn’t even give a fuck in our lives.

But we come at a stage where dealing with our own life is more important than thinking about people and their fucking things. A time where we can say proudly who are there and who’ll be standing for you in your thick and thin. A ear to listen to your beloved ones is more important than a mouth to tell your own sweet stories to people.

I’m at the age where there are so many things to look around. And all I can see is this life is not that simple as it looks. I recently had a terrified days (especially January 21, 2016) this week where it was so hard for us(my family and I) to sit and laugh together. We were together, but talking to each other like dead bodies, there were nothing coming out good from anything from anyone of us. We were really frightened. I forgot to live my life like for 2-3 days, I thought my career is gonna be spoilt. It was a dangerous periods of my life. I can’t even think of that anymore. I’m thankful to God for that phase has gone away.
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Anyways, being a practical and an optimistic person I’m aware of the fact that there are a lot ways to live happy and cheerful life. To be helpful to others, specially to those who need your presence, your suggestions.

I’m grateful to be available for those who need me. And I shall be forever.

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Sumit Yadav(25), popularly known as SumitOfficial, is a blogger from Mumbai who has been writing since 5 years, and has posted 600+ Blog Posts till now. He is an MBA and works in an Educational Industry in Mumbai as a Senior Career Consultant. His spare-time activities include creative things like -- Acting, Photographing, mimicking, singing. He has worked with Radios, appeared on National TV, interviewed authors, appeared on newspapers for multiple activities, and has written reviews for magazines. Also, he's been consistently writing offline in his journals for more than 875+ days now. He believes in Continuous Progression, and Exponential Growth. 

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63 thoughts on “Life’s Playing Grown Up!”

  2. Lets focus on things we have control, stay positive! 🙂 Good one Sumit .
    Btw exams ? you need someone here to scold you, so that you go and study ? 😛

    Keep smiling 🙂
    wishes

    Josh

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    1. Hahaha… No no jarurat Nahi padegi uski. :p
      I was feeling like a dead body, didn’t know what to do with this loneliness. Hence, I came for a while. I’m going again.
      Thanks for stopping by. 🙂
      Have a good day Josh! ☺

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  3. A friend is best measured during the time of fall backs in our life..! I too got a quiet few..and i am honoured with their presence in my life.
    A good article that reminds me of them

    Ashik T M

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  4. I completely agree with you about the moving on in life. But if a “friend” called me at late that night while I´m about to go to sleep, I hang them up. Tell them to cry a river to me the next day when I´m awake. Plus it makes it worst if a girl is stalking her ex boyfriend. That is actually scary. Sincé I had an exgirlfriend that did that, wouldn´t leave me alone. Pain in the behind. Having said that, if it is your friend, you are the one who choose wich people you let into your life, and being a friend does mean to love them for who they are, with their good, bad, their crazynes and all. And do call them out as to what are they doing wrong, and dont wake me up!!! 😉

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    1. There ain’t any conditions in friendship according to me. A friend is supposed to be there whenever it is required. This respect should be there in any relationship whether it’s love or friendship. You can’t say, call me in the evening when actually they want to talk you at that time.

      It’s more of a compromise with ourselves, our wills, to be at someone’s desk who need you. This is what a real relationships are called.

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  15. Thankyou sooooooo much Sir, I read some of the lines for atleast 10 times, specially these:

    ” You have to move on no matter what, the sun will rise tomorrow and sets in the evening too. Will it stop its functioning for you? Not really! Same goes with the people whom we have left behind. They aren’t exist anymore, are they?
    Everyone has a reason to come into our lives, some people to be with us for the rest of our lives and few ones to teach us how to get away from them.”
    Now I understood that not all people will stay with us, we have to get over them. We have to move on. Thanks again for the help, I’m glad you solved my problem, aap humesha kar hi dete ho! Hehe, proved again, your suggestions are PERFECT! ☺☺☺☺☺

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  16. I yet ..not understood that what the life is ? Is life want something from me or i want something from life.. .i just got confused……😖❓❔

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