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Life: Is It Certain or Uncertain?

It is a worst thing which can happened to you, when you heard that a friend with whom you’ve spent almost 2 years together of your 11th & 12th standard, a friend who used to come to your place on a regular basis just because he was your best friend, and wanted to share everything, who used to do parties with you whenever occasion comes. A friend Jo apni new Car le kar sabse pehle aapko dikhane laye, aur bole chal Sumit ghum ke aate hain aaj to kahin(Have a look bro, what I’ve got. A new car. Let’s go somewhere Sumit, we’ll have a party tonight). And he is the friend with whom going here and there, hanging out together, wandering like animals is always really fun.

And one bad day, it’s killing me inside to even say, that the friend is no more your friend, he’s gone far away from you. He’s gone far away from this eternal world.

You can’t party with him anymore. You can’t call him and ask, Kaha hain saale?? Wanna meet you.(where are you son of a b****, wanna meet you)And you have to believe the fact that he’s passed away. He will never come back. His memories are the only way to remember him. He met with a road accident. He could not survive the injuries and passes away.

What’s his age? 20-21? It was a big shock for me. Believe me. Family has to go through so much pain when they see their child’s dead body lying down. There is blood everywhere. I can only pray for the good.
Aakar Malviya, my friend, may your soul rest in peace Bro. 😩

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Aakar with his sister, I don’t have our(his and mine) photos in the device. Actually we did not have those technologies back then. We were very happy without mobile phones though.
PC: Facebook Profile picture

I just wanna share something with you guys, which even I apply while driving after this case.

It is often seen that, we meet with an accidents just because we were going to save other people’s/animals’ lives. But we are continuously doing it in a wrong way. So, here the trick which I request all of you to apply while driving.

When a man/dog/cow suddenly comes in front of your vehicle, You can avoid accident 90% of the time by driving your vehicle behind the animal ( mind you, Do not brake hard, Look for other vehicles in side mirror and vehicles coming in opposite direction, Apply brake smoothly while you steer away from back). There are less chances the animal will walk backwards. 

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I have used this trick many times and have saved myself and lot of animals and people.

Today is Aakar’s first birthday after he passes away. I just want him to wish a very happy birthday and may his soul rest in peace. He will be always remembered. 🙂

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Sumit Yadav(25), popularly known as SumitOfficial, is a blogger from Mumbai who has been writing since 5 years, and has posted 600+ Blog Posts till now. He is an MBA and works in an Educational Industry in Mumbai as a Senior Career Consultant. His spare-time activities include creative things like -- Acting, Photographing, mimicking, singing. He has worked with Radios, appeared on National TV, interviewed authors, appeared on newspapers for multiple activities, and has written reviews for magazines. Also, he's been consistently writing offline in his journals for more than 875+ days now. He believes in Continuous Progression, and Exponential Growth. 

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      2. There are times in life in which we think of being rude to someone, do not talk to them. It also feel for for those people too. Who used to meant so much but then nothing. And one day they gone away so far. It really hurts 😦

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      2. yes Freda, this is the way the life is.
        we can not blame things which are not in our control, but we should accept the fact that this is the way it works.

        anyways, thanks so much for reading my post Freda.

        Your comment made me smile 🙂

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  12. I got one friend too, who passed away because she’s murdered in her room, few years ago on this month, two days from now on to be exact. She’s been robbed, and there’s no one beside her that night. She forgot to close the door as the thief, saw it as a chance. Even though he said that he didn’t mean to kill her, in the end, he still did. In the middle of panic, because she’s eagerly trying to fight him, no matter how injured she is. And yeah, the motive is always for money, to pay the bills. He told the judge in court.

    I remember that she’s just 19 at the time, and she’s the most patient, silly, loving kind of person I’ve ever met. We always support each other in every busy-ness we did, that time. And, she’s the first person that I trust to keep my secret in the college, she’s trusting her story to me too. At last, my secret is never uncovered, neither is hers. I am so sorry for your loss, praying for our great friend whenever we missed them maybe is the best chance we have, for now.

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    1. Oh my God! It is so sad to heard that your friend had to go through such bad thing.

      It teaches us We should always love our surroundings, our relatives, our beloved ones no matter how cruel they are to us. At the end only love remains. I’m sorry for your loss too Aruna. 🙂
      I hope you’re friend is doing well wherever she is right now. 🙂

      Peace!

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      1. Definitely is. It’s kinda hard though, to say that we reaally really love them, the one who we loved the most. Yap, cherish every moment that counts. Me too, I hope both of them are in a good place now. Aamiin 😉

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      3. I am an Indonesian :)) Even though I chose, nope, I picked the other Sanskrit name as my persona. And yeah, there are lots of Indian people who mistaken me as another Indian too, by glazing at the name. My real name is consist of Sanskrit terms too, but it’s just like I am more comfortable to use persona on internet. And also, to write. So, yeah, I use Indonesian because it’s obviously easier for me *giggling*

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      4. Oh my god!! You’re crazy. Hahahahahhahaa!!!! It is so hard to believe that you’re not an Indian girl. Haha!! So what’s your Indonesian name? 😛
        And btw are you active on Facebook?

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      5. Yeah hahaha, even now I still thinking whether I picked the wrong name over a year ago. In fact, the Javanese people (the tribe of one capital island in Indonesia) used to give their kids name from Sanskrit terms. because there are few Hindus and Buddhist, or maybe it’s just the tradition.

        My Indonesian name is.. on my ID card. Hahaha. Well, I rarely check my Facebook account for about 2 years, I think. Actually, I am not that active on social media. There are only some of them that I use to have a real communication. I am more an old school, maybe :p

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      7. *putting the nerdy glasses* *in the name of fashion* :))

        Oh, really? What she’s/he’s been teaching to? And, why she’s/he’s here? Do you ever taking a course in this country or..

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      8. 😁😁
        No no, when I was in Mumbai. She used to teach me French in the institution. Later, she married to a businessman and both of them went to Indonesia. I talk to her through social media. 🙂

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      9. Oh, is the husband an Indonesian? I wonder why they choose to live in Jakarta, the busiest city in Indonesia. Oh the business, fool me *laughs*

        And yeah, there’s nothing you can’t find in Jakarta. Except for the peaceful day… It’s nice to know that you’re still keep in touch with her 😉
        Anyway, are you good enough to communicate in French? Just curious..

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      11. Wow, it’s cool! I just learn French for the basic and I hope I can be like you, at least understand the simple sentences at first. *sigh*

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      13. I hope so… *determined*

        Hmm. If you start the basic from English, I think it’s a lot easier. Indonesian are pretty simple, comparing to English and French because there’s only one verb for every condition. Like for eat-ate-eaten, it’s only makan. To tell the exact time when the condition happens, we added the “yesterday”, “a few hours ago”, and somethings like that. Maybe because we had a lot of local languages, that Indonesian is considered as the simplest. Maybe, I don’t know since I am the native here :))

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      17. Uhm, I think every method will help, the method that suits you best. Since the pronounciation will be different from English and it’ll be good to get used to it.. yeah, for the first attempt, I think YouTube is fine 😉

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