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Sumit Yadav(25), popularly known as SumitOfficial, is a blogger from Mumbai who has been writing since 5 years, and has posted 600+ Blog Posts till now. He is an MBA and works in an Educational Industry in Mumbai as a Senior Career Consultant. His spare-time activities include creative things like -- Acting, Photographing, mimicking, singing. He has worked with Radios, appeared on National TV, interviewed authors, appeared on newspapers for multiple activities, and has written reviews for magazines. Also, he's been consistently writing offline in his journals for more than 875+ days now. He believes in Continuous Progression, and Exponential Growth. 

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    1. Yeah you may be true. But I don’t know who they were when they left me alone when I had nothing. But now I’m welcoming them when they think I have everything. 🙂

      I’m just being nice to myself. ☺

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      1. No, You consider you are doing a FAVOR to them, so under your debt, they won’t think of leaving you again!
        You are just being oblivious that you are selfish interests are disguised by the ‘being nice’ feeling!
        But, who am I to judge, you might be right in your shoes!
        Just saying, it’s okay to be own your true self sometimes, you don’t have to pretend to like someone just because they have ‘Changed’. You may forgive, forget and move one, but the Scars still stay, and you have to live with them and not anyone else!🙂
        All the best!

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      4. Sure. I’ll keep your words in my mind. :)☺☺☺

        P.S. do you know few of my friends DM me on WhatsApp and told me that that girl(means you) is 100% true. They are very much in the same frequency as you. So thank you for your kind suggestion. 🙂

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      5. Haha, Happy to help! 😊
        P.S. I was a little hesitant to comment this on your post… Was thinking of directly telling you this, but that’s the limitation of WordPress… No personal messaging!
        Do write to me if you need any suggestions, maybe I can speak freely on mails.

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    1. Haha..right right. Very true. And I’m being humble to them. 🙂
      They left me alone when they wanted to leave. But they come back to me again. I shouldn’t repeat what they have tried. I am welcoming them, bit with little bit more alertness. Am I doing right? 🙂

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  5. I feel you’re doing the right thing by welcoming ’em back with open arms. They must have realised your true worth, which in turn will help the bond grow stronger further. Be positive, optimistic and give your best, if it doesn’t work out then always remember the following ghazal:
    Wo jo mil gaya ussey yaad rakh,
    Jo nahi mila ussey bhool ja…
    Wo tere naseeb ki baarishen
    Kisi aur chhat pe baras gayin….
    Kahan aake rukne they raaste
    Kahan mod tha ussey bhool ja…
    Wo jo mil gaya ussey yaad rakh…..

    Always do good, with out expectations and be assured you’ll be rewarded good.

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  6. he he this post suits my situation now…. dont ask people why they leave u never complain,,,and for once they were ur best ones.. dont compel anyone to stay in ur life….and when they come back accept them but you can see for yourself your attitude would have changed for you know who they really are…

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    1. Exactly. This is the response I’m getting from all people now.

      You tell me what would you do in this situation? Would you accept them the way they come to you? Or you’ll take revenge by doing the same thing which they have done to you?

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      1. I would accept them….because..I cant sink as low as they do…no revenge and stuff….but I will be a little bit cautious I will not let them hurt me again….something you call safe distance…..

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