Yeah you may be true. But I don’t know who they were when they left me alone when I had nothing. But now I’m welcoming them when they think I have everything. 🙂
No, You consider you are doing a FAVOR to them, so under your debt, they won’t think of leaving you again!
You are just being oblivious that you are selfish interests are disguised by the ‘being nice’ feeling!
But, who am I to judge, you might be right in your shoes!
Just saying, it’s okay to be own your true self sometimes, you don’t have to pretend to like someone just because they have ‘Changed’. You may forgive, forget and move one, but the Scars still stay, and you have to live with them and not anyone else!🙂
All the best!
You mean to say I should realise them what they have lost ? Should I make them feel the same? Should I be aware of the fact that they can go anywhere, anytime?
No , No and Yes! You should be aware that there is a 100% chance that they will do the same again! You just have to be alert this time and don’t be a fool when it happens Again!
P.S. do you know few of my friends DM me on WhatsApp and told me that that girl(means you) is 100% true. They are very much in the same frequency as you. So thank you for your kind suggestion. 🙂
Haha, Happy to help! 😊
P.S. I was a little hesitant to comment this on your post… Was thinking of directly telling you this, but that’s the limitation of WordPress… No personal messaging!
Do write to me if you need any suggestions, maybe I can speak freely on mails.
Haha..right right. Very true. And I’m being humble to them. 🙂
They left me alone when they wanted to leave. But they come back to me again. I shouldn’t repeat what they have tried. I am welcoming them, bit with little bit more alertness. Am I doing right? 🙂
I feel you’re doing the right thing by welcoming ’em back with open arms. They must have realised your true worth, which in turn will help the bond grow stronger further. Be positive, optimistic and give your best, if it doesn’t work out then always remember the following ghazal:
Wo jo mil gaya ussey yaad rakh,
Jo nahi mila ussey bhool ja…
Wo tere naseeb ki baarishen
Kisi aur chhat pe baras gayin….
Kahan aake rukne they raaste
Kahan mod tha ussey bhool ja…
Wo jo mil gaya ussey yaad rakh…..
Always do good, with out expectations and be assured you’ll be rewarded good.
he he this post suits my situation now…. dont ask people why they leave u never complain,,,and for once they were ur best ones.. dont compel anyone to stay in ur life….and when they come back accept them but you can see for yourself your attitude would have changed for you know who they really are…
Exactly. This is the response I’m getting from all people now.
You tell me what would you do in this situation? Would you accept them the way they come to you? Or you’ll take revenge by doing the same thing which they have done to you?
I would accept them….because..I cant sink as low as they do…no revenge and stuff….but I will be a little bit cautious I will not let them hurt me again….something you call safe distance…..
Sir, this is beautiful, but kiske liye likha? 😐
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For everyone. For no one. ☺
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That’s confusing. Samjhaao na! 😌
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Later. Busy in writing tomorrow’s script for shooting.
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Ohho, batana mujhe when you’re free. ☺☺
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Sure. 🙂
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But seriously, Do you really believe people change? It’s more like they get better in hiding their true personalities!
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Yeah you may be true. But I don’t know who they were when they left me alone when I had nothing. But now I’m welcoming them when they think I have everything. 🙂
I’m just being nice to myself. ☺
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No, You consider you are doing a FAVOR to them, so under your debt, they won’t think of leaving you again!
You are just being oblivious that you are selfish interests are disguised by the ‘being nice’ feeling!
But, who am I to judge, you might be right in your shoes!
Just saying, it’s okay to be own your true self sometimes, you don’t have to pretend to like someone just because they have ‘Changed’. You may forgive, forget and move one, but the Scars still stay, and you have to live with them and not anyone else!🙂
All the best!
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You mean to say I should realise them what they have lost ? Should I make them feel the same? Should I be aware of the fact that they can go anywhere, anytime?
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No , No and Yes! You should be aware that there is a 100% chance that they will do the same again! You just have to be alert this time and don’t be a fool when it happens Again!
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Sure. I’ll keep your words in my mind. :)☺☺☺
P.S. do you know few of my friends DM me on WhatsApp and told me that that girl(means you) is 100% true. They are very much in the same frequency as you. So thank you for your kind suggestion. 🙂
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Haha, Happy to help! 😊
P.S. I was a little hesitant to comment this on your post… Was thinking of directly telling you this, but that’s the limitation of WordPress… No personal messaging!
Do write to me if you need any suggestions, maybe I can speak freely on mails.
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Yes yes. Sure.
May I know your email ID please? ☺
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Check it out here:
https://theteekaytake.wordpress.com/2015/12/08/welcome-to-my-blog/
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Wonderful thoughts. People do change but it is always better to be cautious with them 😉
They just can’t stay away, we have the magnetic pull, eh?? 😂😂
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Haha..right right. Very true. And I’m being humble to them. 🙂
They left me alone when they wanted to leave. But they come back to me again. I shouldn’t repeat what they have tried. I am welcoming them, bit with little bit more alertness. Am I doing right? 🙂
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Keep doing it. Might just be a better thing to do in return and make them regret! 🙂 Good night!
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Ha ha.. I will by being good to them. Thank you 😊😊
Good night, stay blessed 😊😊
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That sounds like a nice thing 🙂
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Thank you Freda. It means a lot. 🙂
Have a good day! ☺
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You too 🙂
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😊
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I feel you’re doing the right thing by welcoming ’em back with open arms. They must have realised your true worth, which in turn will help the bond grow stronger further. Be positive, optimistic and give your best, if it doesn’t work out then always remember the following ghazal:
Wo jo mil gaya ussey yaad rakh,
Jo nahi mila ussey bhool ja…
Wo tere naseeb ki baarishen
Kisi aur chhat pe baras gayin….
Kahan aake rukne they raaste
Kahan mod tha ussey bhool ja…
Wo jo mil gaya ussey yaad rakh…..
Always do good, with out expectations and be assured you’ll be rewarded good.
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Thank you Dhiraj Bhai for your kind comment and suggestions. 🙂
I’ll keep that in my mind and I’ll be more aware this time. Thank you. It means a lot. 😊😊
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Welcome Bro 🙂
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he he this post suits my situation now…. dont ask people why they leave u never complain,,,and for once they were ur best ones.. dont compel anyone to stay in ur life….and when they come back accept them but you can see for yourself your attitude would have changed for you know who they really are…
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Exactly. This is the response I’m getting from all people now.
You tell me what would you do in this situation? Would you accept them the way they come to you? Or you’ll take revenge by doing the same thing which they have done to you?
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I would accept them….because..I cant sink as low as they do…no revenge and stuff….but I will be a little bit cautious I will not let them hurt me again….something you call safe distance…..
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Yes. This is what I’m gonna do. 🙂
To keep distance from them. And do not them hurt again!
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*do not let them hurt me again!
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What a big heart you have! Lovely words. 🌸
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Am I doing right thing? 🙂
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Yes, I believe you are! 🙂
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thank you ☺☺☺
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Very true!
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Yes Nitin. 🙂
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BTW why am I having a problem in following you? 😦
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Oh, is it ?? I followed you now, I hope it is reflecting in yours.
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Ok.. Lemme try one more time.
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It’s showing now. 🙂
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😇😇
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You write beautiful quotes Sumit!! Maybe we’ll get to read more of those!! 🙂
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Yes. Yes. You’ll get a lot. Just wait and watch Mithai. 😎☺😍
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Yes yes waiting!! :p (y)
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☺☺
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Amazing thought! 😊
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🙂
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I love this very nice
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Thank you very much
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You’re Welcome, Blessings
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