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3 Reasons to why people get attracted to you

The power of sight has been so much abused in a lustrous way that the attraction has lost its charm. It is ridiculous to think that people would only be around you if you are pretty or fair. No. That is not the truth. Else it will be like picking a food item which has a good packing but no good taste at all. Psychologically, we like something or someone because we love the vibe and we get attracted to that. So there are several reasons why are willing to come to you, and why people get attracted to you-

Affection

So the very first reason why would anyone attracted to you is because of affection. If a person is trying to know you, give them love. Love has no language, it’ll come to you when you do something which attracts people. Don’t be judgemental is someone is praising you for your goodness, it’s not always they want something in return than love.

Neediness

It will happen to you most of the time. We always have people in our life who thinks we are doing something which they cannot. Or maybe they try to do that with your help. In such case, all you have to do is help the person with whatever he wants from you. He/she will always remember you that you helped him/her once upon a time.

Influence

The happiest reason is people come and talk to you because they are influenced by your personality or what you do in your life. All of us does amazing stuff in our lives. If anyone comes to you after getting influenced they you should probably thank you God that you are capable enough to make people influence with your personality.

 

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Sumit Yadav(25), popularly known as SumitOfficial, is a blogger from Mumbai who has been writing since 5 years, and has posted 600+ Blog Posts till now. He is an MBA and works in an Educational Industry in Mumbai as a Senior Career Consultant. His spare-time activities include creative things like -- Acting, Photographing, mimicking, singing. He has worked with Radios, appeared on National TV, interviewed authors, appeared on newspapers for multiple activities, and has written reviews for magazines. Also, he's been consistently writing offline in his journals for more than 875+ days now. He believes in Continuous Progression, and Exponential Growth. 

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138 thoughts on “3 Reasons to why people get attracted to you”

      1. thats so humble of you . main reason for my blog is share everything that inspires me , every brainstorming ideas i generate , and everything that helps people to go one step further towards their dream.. if you think im doing it , it means purpose is served.. this is one more great compliment by you

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  3. Great post! All good points! I have personally experienced all three. These two factors may also fit under influence but personality traits such as opposites attract as well as common interests.
    My husband and I will be celebrating 34 years next month and in the beginning, i think we could have been attracted to each other because we were so opposite. But now, we seem to be attracted to each other because of our same goals and interests. Not to mention the physical attraction…
    Isn’t life awesome? 😀

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    1. Yes, ultimately all the points are inter-connected to each other.

      Wow! Congratulations Laura on your forth coming anniversary. I can imagine through your words that how amazing it would have been for you to have a peaceful 34 years of journey with your husband.

      Yes! I heartily believe life is just awesome. 🙂

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  6. Yes!!! This is very well though of and is often over looked🤗 we may not always realize the fact that every interaction we have with someone can be of influence… Let make it a positive one!! ☺

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  7. Well you know why childhood friends are real friends. Because they are pure. Innocent. Nature bind them. Nothing is artificial.
    Second stage is when you are young . You are devided in general
    When you are attracted to a beautiful girl and generally most of them are not aware of other negative things.
    My experience : I have seen the couples where girl is not beautiful they proved to be a successful pair
    May be I am wrong. Bcause where the face in not attractive generally there are other qualities to balance the life are pretty good.

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      1. Yes absolutely I agree with you Sumit this is a beautiful world and people too r good but selfish motives have destroyed us too much of me, mine and what I am getting out of it. Materialism has eaten all of us. So that is why we few bloggers getting together and writing inspirational stories, posts etc is very good for creating awareness in people. So let us hope that we all can create a little beautiful space of love, kindness and happiness that our God who is in all wants. I hope in my limited way I could write some

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      5. Hi Kamal, trust me I miss you too here and of course your writings. I know, I know I’ve been disappeared since I had shifted to Mumbai.

        But I promise to be in touch with you all as much as i can. 😍😘😊

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      2. But that is not being judgemental. If we don’t take care of it, our sub-conscious mind will assume anything about the other person.
        Don’t you think it is a great way to categorize the behavior of people?

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      3. Hmm.. But it’s always there – judgements.. Thats a natural ability I think…We can’t stop thinking or creating a image, prehandedly, about somebody.. Though many a times it’s a wrong judgement.. I do categorize people on this basis.. 😅

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      6. Aaj Kal ke log kuch padhte nahi hain na sahi Se, yahi problem hain. 😂😂

        I said mera name wrong category me dalna and I’ll prove you wrong(that I deserve to be in the right one) 😂😂😂😂😂😂😘

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    1. That is true Arohii. But to get in that zone, don’t you think 1st and 2nd is important?

      I see people are craving for getting attention from others but when it comes to help others, or be with them They find their ways and escape. I hate such people.

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      1. yep, agreed with you completely. I hate such people too. Glad that people like you are there and lets hope that one day people like you, will outnumber such people.

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  13. Nowadays nothing is for long. With time people forget whether you gave them love, helped them or influenced them in a way or two. But that’s true one day when they see you crossing the street, they remember everything, So, in case they don’t appreciate you, don’t give credit to you for all the things you did, they know you are a person. Deep down in their heart, it is you.

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    1. I completely agree with you here J. But that is something where we don’t need to focus. It is a process of selflessness where there would be no expectations from the other person if he/she can give us something in return or not. Most of the time nobody can pay you what you do for them.

      So in this case, let’s not expect anything and start giving. Ultimately, it will give us the courage that we are capable enough to give something without expecting anything. 🙂

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    1. Absolutely. And, most of the time we ignore such conditions by taking them for granted. Those are the situations where we need to be there when somebody needs us. It should not matter if the other person can give you anything or not.

      I am glad that you liked it. 🙂

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  15. I loved the way you started and I am extremely glad to know that you are one amongst those who gets attracted to people seeing the 3 qualities you have mentioned above.
    Good going Sumit and very well written!:)

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    1. Hahaha! I am speechless! 🙂

      I would not say attraction, it is everyone’s love which grab me near them. 🙂

      And of course, everyday we meet people who treat us like their idols, so we can definitely be better by helping them. 🙂

      Have you ever felt in this way where you come across any of these reasons?

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  16. Of course these are the very genuine reasons that why we wish to connect to the other person.There are many such experiences.One of them would be when I go back to my school and teachers and juniors standing far away come running to meet me.This seriously makes me feel like a star!
    But you know,Sumit,there are people sometimes who hang out just for the reason of beauty and else.This is something very annoying especially if we get attached to such person for other reasons.Getting away from such people is really difficult..ha ha ha..

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      1. If you decide to get it I would really love to hear your reaction to the story told to natives in Africa and the the abduction of the sweetheart of the White Knight by the evil Black Knight! Very interesting take on classic romance, I thought!

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      5. Haan.. oh so sorry!!! I’ve literally forogt to reply🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 muhje maf kardo🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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