Sex: A Three-letter Word or Taboo?

It is fantastic that while India is achieving so many endeavors, has made huge strides in science and technologies, medicines, business, start-ups and what not. But what makes me sad about being Indian is that people are still narrow-minded. The word SEX is still a taboo in today’s time. It is a topic which is only discussed books. Sex is a term which should be used in hushed tones, because of a few people’s mentality. Otherwise, people will start judging you.

Evocative Writing? That’s Called Smut!

Wherein people are going gaga over things which are publicly exploded. Be it a young or old everyone is bold when it comes to seeing sexy pictures of models/actresses on TV, Facebook, Instagram. But when there is someone who doesn’t see sex as a sin or crime, is being criticized by a few people, according to them,  sex writ-ups are something which should not be shared on a WhatsApp group of people who says are fond of literature whereas 95% of the same people from the group reads and appreciate what I write, so the rest of the 5%, who thinks what I write is evocative content disguised as erotica.

As most of the readers know that I write about sex and erotica; in literature language, it is known as Smut, which has its own history.

A writer should always write what he/she feels like. I am blessed with amazing readers who like and appreciate my writing style whatever I write. And I have personally met a lot of smut writers on WordPress itself. I don’t know why a few people who thinks they know literature better than anyone else in this world wants to guide people just because they are getting jealous of someone else’s victory.

They did not even know the meaning of smut. According to them what smut is “sexually explicit things” but they are so dumb that they don’t understand the real meaning of smut.

Smut means’ “Highly developed stories with love lines and other things that appeal to women. It can be in the form of comic, novels, magazine, or poetry.”

I was really astonished to see people who call themselves a literature lover, can insult a poet who doesn’t follow the stereotypes, who believes in writing what his heart says.

By the way, Goodreads have a category named as Literary Smuts which contains more than 121 books which are internationally successful.

Literary Smut ( 121 Books on Goodreads)

I neither want to name those people nor that group where I was criticized for my work. I simply refrain from such people. Really! It’s like they would go to Khajuraho to see the architectures which were built between the years 900 and 1200 AD, which contains intricate carvings of mankind having sex, but when a 21-year-old writes about sex in poetic and literary style, it is erotic and evocative for them. Wow, how can they even say they respect art? Fake people!

When I met the Founder of India’s first Female Urination Device

I met a person today, named Deep Bajaj who is an entrepreneur in one of the conferences I attended today. He was looking like Robin Sharma, a well-known motivator. So I was attending a conclave named “100 emerging start-ups of 2017 in India” where I met him in Indore’s Daly college. His start-up idea has made me amazed when I actually saw what he does and how he came up with the idea. He has introspected, while the girl is traveling via bus she cannot go to the washroom in midst of jungle. So he invented “Pee Buddy” which actually helps a girl to fix it near her vagina to pee easily without hesitation, just like a male who pees. I was so astonished to look at the confidence of Deep when he stood up from his chair during the conference and actually showed to the public how it works.

You can watch the video here:

Later on, I got a chance to meet him in person and I came to know about his product more. I asked only one question to him, which literally opened my eyes when he answered.

Did you think about people or society who might say you should be ashamed of yourself for inventing and selling such piece of shit called “Pee Buddy”? I asked Deep.

“Fuck what people or society says. If I would have not invented this, they would have criticized me anyway for other things I make. What matters to me is, females are very happily using it and we have already sold out our product to 100000 female customers who are satisfied with it.” He replied with a smile.

As we were walking towards the exit door, I told him that I write about Erotica and all my readers respect and love it, at the same time a few people are there who criticize me for doing so.

When the Founder Appreciated my Work

First of all, he stopped and shook hands with me smilingly. “ Sumit, you are doing a wonderful job which others are even afraid to think. Don’t think about those who can’t appreciate your work, just don’t care about them. Focus on who are motivating you, and at the end of the day, it is you who needs to be satisfied with what you do.” He said it and moved forward. I had goose-bumps by now.

All of a sudden a friend of mine Kalpit, interrupted in between, “Sir, he’s SumitOfficial who….” Kalpit said

“I already know Sumit by now. Good luck” He smilingly told Kalpit by looking at me. He bid us goodbye.

Well, the entire event made me one thing clear that no matter what I write or do right now, or I’ll be doing in my entrepreneurship journey, good and bad people will be everywhere.

We can’t just focus on them because they are worthless. I appreciate the 99% love I get from all of you which makes me go miles and miles. I love you all for that.

Conclusion

This discussion did teach me something that you should not think about those few (Who insult my work) but focus on those people who reads and appreciate what your heart wants you to write.

I already proved myself right to those unwanted people who rest their case in the end. But as my self-esteem don’t allow me to be around such negative people; I’ll refrain from them now.

I would strongly advise to people who thinks sex or sexual writing is a sin to have a proper sex education and educate themselves with actual art of literature.

 

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