Pain!

One of the greatest difficulties in life is to bear the pain which can be given by people around us, by betrayed in love, or because of the guilt for something we have done which we should not have done in the past. Isn’t it?

There are many ways one tries to escape from the suffering he is in, at times he gets succeeded but many times not. The pain has the control over your mind and heart, which can make you do anything; either destroy you or probably make you up with something which you can never think of. 
To be unconscious is one of the ways where you try to escape from the pain you are in, the one you are suffering with. 

You will never see a wounded person being conscious while it’s hurting and bleeding even the body knows you cannot tolerate the pain which leads you to be in the state of sleep for a while. Sleep promises you to hide away from the harsh reality for a while. Isn’t it? Sleep gives you the authority to go somewhere where nothing from this world can reach you. It will distance you from all the people, places, bad memories which haunt you deeply. It will make you unconscious for a while to prepare you for the unpredictable pain which you will be going to suffer.

Desolation!

Still, not all the sleep will help you. You will be tired of being a dead body at last. You would want to be alive to burn all the bad memories which are eating you inside. And that is, with the help of forgetting. Your mind is like a child if you make it believe in something then it will manifest its own world around you. Even if it is not there, you will see that happening in front of you. Many wounds take hell lot of time to recover, maybe a whole lifetime? But once you convince your mind to forget something, perhaps it might help a dead body to move again. After all, time cannot heal all the wounds, all the time.

Can it?

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53 thoughts on “Pain!”

  1. “Sleep promises you to hide away from the harsh reality for a while. Isn’t it? Sleep gives you the authority to go somewhere where nothing from this world can reach you.”

    And at times, sleep betrays too, it doesn’t even touch you days and nights because you are all occupied.

    Nice post.

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  2. I’m going to disagree, respectfully of course 😁and say to me, time can along with 100% true forgiveness, heal old wounds as I think they cease to be viewed by you in that same perspective after a while if that makes sense – I’m not as good with you with words 😄

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  3. It’s true that time cannot heal all wounds after all its also a mechanism.
    But time does one magical thing
    It gives us experience to face that pain
    To be honest pain doesn’t hurt much
    It’s the fear of pain which does

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  4. We think we possess pain, but I believe it’s the opposite. It’s the pain posseses us. We are entirely a new and different person when we are in pain.
    The last line was fantastic! You are right. Time just suppresses the pain, never destroys it completely. We always know it’s there. One word, one picture, one Dialogue, or one flashback and the pain takes you over again.
    Truly, honestly and sincerely this was a mind blowing post. The most complex phenomenon in most simplest words. Divine! 😊😊

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  5. “Everybody wants happiness, nobody wants pain but how can you have a rainbow without a lil rain?”
    Pain and sleep? Nice, you actually need to think to connect, you know why most of us love sleep is because it’s like an escape, but so are so many other things ,if we are awake automatically we think about the pain. best solution accept it, maybe denying it will lead to more confusion.
    I really liked this post, thought provoking! Great👍

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    1. Yes, Shivee you are right that accept the pain would reduce the stress. But tell me honestly, is n’t it easier said than done? I agree, that you believe it or not sooner or later you have to accept the reality no matter how harsh it is.

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      1. You are okay na, I mean generally pain and all? Most of things in our life are easier said than done, but escaping pain gets harder as time passes, sometimes you just need to let it be, coz somehow everything happens for a reason, most of the times all you need to do in pain is take a break, not that easy but maybe don’t accept it intentionally but you know you will have to, maybe its like at sometime when you get hurt you put bandaid the after sometime you pull off the bandaid and it hurts but then it is relieved.

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      2. Beautifully explained, Shivee ❤🌸
        Yes, I’m completely alright, love. I asked you to know the insights of your point of view. And you did a wonderful job. 💞😘😊

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  6. Exactly, sleep can not always be a solution or escape to our pain and sometimes it doesn’t even come near us at times of pain .
    Ultimately it’s our mind(thinking) that can help us overcome our feelings.
    Great writing sumit sir 🙏

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  7. Beautifully written👌.Time is the best medicine to heal all the wounds .Sleep is an escape from the pain but not a solution.
    Sorry,I think it’s just a mistake on Insta .Hope you don’t mind buddy.Thanks for informing me.

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    1. That’s absolutely right, it can comfort you for a while but kit always. Thanks so much for your beautiful view. 🙂

      And I’m sorry, I didn’t get you on Instagram thing? 😟

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  8. Sumit !!! You know pain demands to be felt.. until or unless you feel it , it wont effect you at all. And being emotional beings on earth we can’t escape this feeling.
    Sleep lets you escape for a little while but if you want to escape it forever and u need to sleep forever and thats not at all an option to be kept !!

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